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Here Comes The Bride

Who will be my Bridesmaids?

Woo hoo! Can you hear the wedding bells ringing? If you just got engaged and started planning your wedding, then your mind is probably racing with a to-do list. You are probably thinking, “who do I need to pick for bridesmaids?” because a lot of expectations rest on that decision. It’s tricky, but the good news is: you are the bride and your rules are law.

Who Should You Consider for Your Bridesmaid?

It’s okay to choose not to pick someone for your bridesmaid, but it would be terrible if you just forgot to consider them. Here are a few of the most common pools bride’s pick their bridesmaids from:

Sisters

In most families, it’s important to start with siblings. Some family dynamics may mean this isn’t the case, but normally these are the girls you are closest too, the ones you grew up with and the ones you will have in your life for a long time to come. And if there is a huge age difference, some brides choose to make their sisters flower girls or junior bridesmaids.

Best Friends

Obviously a girl wants her best friends by her side on her big day. Just make sure you pick friends that are reliable and focused on your best interests.

Future-Husband’s Sisters

Your new in-laws should be top-of-the-list when it comes to new besties. The better your relationship, the easier the transition, family events and your marriage. Of course, this isn’t possible with all families, but if you are growing to like his sisters, then add them to your list! It will mean a lot because it isn’t an automatic expectation like your own sisters would be.

Close Cousins

Sometimes we have close cousins that feel like sisters. They definitely make the list. Cousins are a great option especially if you don’t have sisters. 

Sorority Sisters

If you had really close connections in college, you might want them there for your big day. However, if there are a lot of them, you might not have enough space for them all to make the cut. Some women choose to make their sorority sisters honorary bridesmaids, giving them a special wristlet, bracelet or corsage to set them apart as a group and giving them special reserved seating.

Childhood Friends

You might have a lot of memories with someone that you aren’t as close to now. Sometimes adding them in the big moments of your life will help keep those relationships strong for a long-term friendship, even if you don’t hang together a lot. 

What Should You Expect from Your Bridesmaids?

They should be your support system, listening ear and cheer squad. Don’t ask them to spend a lot of money on your wedding or be so invested that it takes from their own lives and families. But, do expect them to be your pack as you prepare for one of the biggest days of your life.How Should You Ask Your Bridesmaids?

There are so many cute and creative ways to ask your bridesmaids to be a part of your wedding. From cute gifts to creative sayings, make it a memorable experience--especially for your maid of honor. You can go all out or have fun with a budget-friendly approach. Your bridesmaids will appreciate the thought and feel special to be asked in a creative way.

Your bridesmaids should:

  • Throw your bachelorette party
  • Help with planning the wedding
  • Run errands
  • Help you with DIY crafts
  • Check on you on your day to make sure you look your best throughout the night
  • Help get the party started and supply plenty of energy
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