Denny and Terri Armstrong are celebrating 50 years of love, laughter and unwavering commitment. Their journey began with a chance meeting in college that blossomed into a lifelong partnership. As they reflect on their anniversary, they attribute their lasting bond to communication, shared faith and finding joy in everyday moments together. We had the opportunity to sit down with them and ask some questions about 50 years of love.
Q: Looking back over 50 years together, what has been the key to a lasting marriage?
A: It truly has been God being a part of our relationship. He has guided us throughout every step of our marriage. We have always prayed through each moment and listened to God’s guidance.
Q: What is one of your favorite memories from your early years together, and why does it still stand out to you?
A: We have lots of fun memories but our favorite memory was how God truly showed me that Denny was who I was supposed to marry. I met Denny at a bible study that I was invited to last minute by two girls I had never met when I was walking back into the dorms after being out praying one night. I went to the Mustard Seed that night and met Denny. We dated, broke up, and I was so confused, but I felt God clearly tell me that not only was Denny the one, but he would ask me to marry him and God would give Denny the exact day we would get married. Sure enough, Denny asked me to marry him and declared we would be married on June 21st.
Q: What advice would you give couples just starting their journey together?
A: Go into your relationship knowing the relationship is not about you; it's about the two of you. You must communicate and show each other grace. Really commit to forming your family. You make your family the priority and focus. Committing to someone is an adjustment, remember that forgiveness is key. Keep your expectations in check and don’t fall into the trap of comparison.
Q: How have you supported each other during tough times and how have you both stayed grounded?
A: Prayer has been the key for us and thinking more of the other person's wants and desires over your own. Also, doing an excellent job loving each other and following each other in joy.
Q: How do you celebrate Valentine’s Day now compared to when you first met?
A: The first Valentine’s we had, Denny wrote me a poem and gave me a plant. That plant grew so big that when we moved it was too big to go with us. We have often written letters to each other over the years. We just have a lot of fun together.