When I encounter someone with an amazing personal style, I can’t help feeling intrigued by their journey to self-expression through clothing, personal grooming, and makeup. In a room full of people, it’s those with a distinctive look who truly stand out.
Many of us draw inspiration from fashion editorials, celebrities donning designer pieces, and social media influencers showcasing their latest beauty looks. We might aspire to replicate the style of someone we admire, but the question remains: how do we develop our own?
Darshan Gress, a New York City and Los Angeles-based personal stylist who writes the weekly newsletter StyleD, shares: "I always remind clients that personal style doesn't start in the stores, it starts in your closet. Take time to play dress-up with what you already have, experiment with unexpected combinations, and have fun rediscovering pieces you've overlooked. That's where authentic style truly develops."
This insight is invaluable. It reminds us that personal style isn’t about chasing trends, it’s about connecting with what resonates with you and expressing who you are.
In my own style journey, I’ve always found my favorite pieces in downtown boutiques. These shops often have experienced owners who help you find items that truly work for you. It’s not just about “finding clothes” or “new makeup colors”—it’s about discovering what feels like you and having fun with it. Sometimes, it’s that one unique piece that speaks volumes and complements what you already own. Or maybe it’s a new lipstick shade or highlighter that brightens your look and boosts your confidence.
Developing your style is all about authenticity. Ask yourself: what makes me feel alive? What do I want my style to say about me?
In a world increasingly dominated by fast fashion and beauty trends, it’s important to remember that finding what’s truly you isn’t just about what's popular—it’s about expressing who you are and what makes you feel confident. So, take a moment today to play with what you already own, and ask that boutique owner to help you discover the style that reflects the real you.
Kristina Foreman is a professional makeup artist and owner of MakeupMakeup.com.
Developing your style is all about authenticity. Ask yourself: what makes me feel alive? What do I want my style to say about me?