Emily Post—an American author, novelist, and socialite, famous for writing about etiquette—says a good rule of thumb is that you should send a written note any time you receive a gift (even for a ‘thank you’ gift) and the giver wasn’t there to be thanked in person. She also noted that sometimes notes are not always necessary. If, for example, the gift is from a close friend or relative and is not a wedding gift, you can email or call instead if you prefer.
I know another Emily who would protest this last point. My mother, Emily, would implore you to always use a pen and paper. I tend to agree, especially because she was the pillar of politeness and good manners.
This isn’t an angry “whatever happened to people writing thank you notes” message. Instead, just a cheery-straightforward reminder to use every opportunity to encourage the people in your world to continue to be nice and do nice things for others.
A thank you note can leave an immeasurable impression while acknowledging a gift, a thoughtful favor, or when someone’s warm hospitality is easy. Just speak from your heart and use a few extra adjectives. They undeniably will be thankful.
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