A few years ago, Jonie Sturek found herself in an unexpected spot. A real estate agent with more than two decades of experience and the mother of two grown sons, she discovered her once-vibrant mother’s health was declining. The diagnosis of an aggressive form of frontal lobe dementia sent Sturek into action, leading to difficult conversations, endless research, and many decisions.
Her years of experience as a realtor revealed a need beyond first-time buyers and those building dream homes. She saw firsthand the demand for someone to help seniors and their families navigate a different home-buying experience. When it comes to seniors, Sturek strives to find the perfect place for them to call home. While that may look different from past purchases, it’s no less important. And so, Family Ties Senior Placement Services was born.
After her mother’s diagnosis, Sturek used her real estate expertise to find the perfect house for her mother to live in comfortably during her final years, recreating spaces that mirrored those she had once known. She understood the importance of finding a community and location that felt right. With the help of professional companion care services coupled with her role as her mother's primary caregiver, Sturek struck a manageable balance for her family.
Organically, friends and family began reaching out to Sturek for advice when they found themselves in similar situations. Known as the "sandwich generation"—middle-aged adults caring for both aging parents and their own children—these individuals often face unfamiliar challenges. Family Ties aims to offer solutions.
“My mission is to help people understand they don’t have to stay stuck,” Sturek says. “I learned while caring for my own mother to advocate for her—and for myself. Now, that’s the approach I take with every client I serve. I’m their advocate.”
When a client contacts Sturek, who holds the Senior Real Estate Specialist designation, they receive guidance on selling their home and, if needed, finding placement in the right community - whether it be independent living, assisted living, memory care, or skilled care. Sturek has established relationships with communities throughout the metro area and excels at learning what’s important to her clients.
Family Ties Senior Placement Services partners with a licensed dementia practitioner and offers a full range of services, from living alternatives to moving assistance. The company provides resources on various living options, but its primary goal is to preserve dignity and find the right fit for each family.
“Everyone lives life on their terms, and they deserve to pass on their own terms,” Sturek says.
After her mother’s passing, Sturek saw another need in the community and transformed the home she had purchased for her mother into a private residential independent-living solution, lovingly called The Owl House in tribute to her mother’s love for the winged creature. Today, the house serves as a home for various residents, from senior citizens to UNMC transplant patients. The space is available to those who prefer a homey, family-like environment with hands-on care.
Her experience, though unexpected, has served Sturek well. She offers a wealth of wisdom on caring for aging parents. Her top tip is to be proactive.
“Have conversations early,” she advises. “The key is to make decisions while people are still able to. If you wait too long, you’re forced to make decisions.” She adds with a small smile, “And find the happy.”
If you’re looking for an advocate to help with your next move, Sturek offers free consultations. Visit familytiesseniorplacementservices.com to get started.