Lately, something unexpected has been happening.
Complete strangers have stopped me to say, “I love your style.”
At first, I smiled and thanked them, but afterward I found myself thinking, Do I really have a style? I know I have a brand for my business, but I never really thought about having a personal style. The more I heard it, the more I realized that style isn’t about following trends, rather, it’s about expressing who you are.
Recently, I cleaned out my closet. I donated pieces I’d been holding onto for years because they no longer made me feel good. It wasn’t easy. Like many of us, I had clothes I kept “just in case” or because they held memories. But I decided that if I didn’t feel confident wearing them today, they didn’t belong in my future.
Now, when I open my closet, everything I see makes me feel good. Every piece fits, reflects who I am and gives me confidence. I’ve also lost a little weight, which has reminded me how much our clothing can influence how we feel about ourselves.
Having spent many years as a hairstylist, salon owner and master trainer, I’ve always believed that when you look good, you feel good and when you feel good, you do good. That philosophy has stayed with me throughout my life and career.
Style isn’t about wearing designer labels or keeping up with every fashion trend. It’s about finding what makes you feel comfortable, confident and authentically you.
So, what’s your style?
Are you casual and relaxed? Classic and timeless? Bold and colorful? Elegant and polished? Sporty? Bohemian? Minimalist? There isn’t a right or wrong answer. Your style should tell your story before you ever say a word.
The best accessory you’ll ever wear is confidence. When you discover your own style, you’re not dressing to impress others, you’re dressing to honor yourself. And that’s always in style.
With gratitude to my community and all the amazing people that have been their own special style--remember you are younique and special.
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