It doesn't matter who my father was; it matters who I remember he was. -- Anne Sexton
Fathers play a significant role in their kids' lives. They're essential role models, influence children's self-esteem and school performance, and make great coaches and fun-loving playmates. Once kids have grown and aged, fathers make great friends, confidants, and are there to lend a hand.
Father’s Day is just around the corner, so don’t be caught scrambling for the perfect way to show you care. Try some of these ideas to show your dad just how important he is to you.
Musical Moment– Take your father to see his favorite band or performing artist, head to a jazz or blues festival, or pack up some lawn chairs and enjoy a local concert in the park.
Weekend Getaway – Get in touch with nature and each other on a camping trip for two. Either rough it in a tent or rent a mini-cabin at a state park. Spend your weekend hiking, sightseeing, fishing, boating, playing cards, and taking it easy together.
Treat Him Like a King – What better way to show your appreciation for all his hard work than to indulge him? Give your father a gift certificate for a professional massage, which will be sure to please.
Take a Stroll – Enjoy a peaceful walk in the park or the country together. Better yet, gather your bikes or rollerblades, hit a scenic bike path, and enjoy the fresh summer air.
Certificates of Appreciation – Show Dad you appreciate his hard work by returning the favor. Make coupons that say: "In appreciation for all that you do, Dad. Redeem this certificate for a hassle-free car wash by me!" Other favors include sweeping out the garage, mowing the lawn, or any other task he usually handles.
Catch a Flick…..or two – Treat your dad to a movie fest. Rent a couple of newly released videos or some of his long-time favorites. Or head to the cinemas for a double feature. Whether you take the movies in at home or the theater, don’t forget the hot, buttered popcorn, candy, and soft drinks.
Get in Touch with His Soft Side – Give your dad a book of poetry specially written for fathers. Try one of these:
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Fathers: A Collection of Poems by David Ray and Judy Ray
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Father's: Collected Poems by Ken Koprowski
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Thoughts to Share With a Wonderful Father: A Collection of Poems by Blue Mountain Arts Collections
A Gift of Giving – Does your dad have a favorite cause or charity such as the Humane Society, the Nature Conservancy, or the American Cancer Society? If so, why not give him a membership or make a donation in his name? Remember, small donations add up and are always appreciated.
