In Scottsdale, an unexpected bond formed through Big Brothers Big Sisters has changed two lives. Amy Walters, a former Mrs. Arizona America, and Liana Rivera, a reserved Valley teen, came together as mentor and mentee—and discovered a friendship that transformed them both.
“I thought it was weird to have someone I didn’t know as a mentor. But my mom kept pushing, and eventually, I caved," says Liana.
Initially hesitant, Liana soon found comfort in the bond. Amy arrived just in time, as Liana navigated the unique pressures of being a teen.
“Adults think it’s easier for kids now because we have more resources, but that’s not true. Social media makes everything harder. There’s always this pressure to look a certain way or have a perfect life,” says Liana.
The constant comparisons and unrealistic standards left Liana feeling self-conscious.
“It’s hard to balance everything—friends, school, and family,” Liana shares. “I’ve lost friends because I focused too much on my studies, and I’ve gotten bad grades when I tried to prioritize my friendships. It feels like you can’t win.”
At one point, the pressure to please everyone became overwhelming.
“I was trying so hard to make other people happy that I forgot about myself. That’s when I decided the only person I need to keep happy is me.”
That turning point was one of many that Liana credits to Amy’s influence.
“Amy helps me see things differently. She’s always there to listen and remind me of my worth. She’s taught me that I don’t have to carry the weight of everyone else’s expectations.”
For Amy, mentoring Liana has been a deeply personal and rewarding experience. She often reflects on her own challenges growing up and the guidance she received from her late uncle, Rod Schmidt.
“He was my mentor and taught me to believe in myself even when the odds were against me,” Amy says. “I wanted to be that person for someone else. Liana is everything I hoped for in a Little Sister.”
Amy has encouraged Liana to step outside her comfort zone in ways that have changed her outlook on life. One such moment was a hike to Devil’s Bridge in Sedona.
“I used to be terrified of heights,” says Liana. “But Amy kept encouraging me, step by step. It reminded me that I’m stronger than I think.”
Another pivotal experience was when Amy convinced Liana to participate in a fashion show.
“I was so nervous, but Amy believed in me. When we walked out, I was too scared to look at the crowd. By the end, I realized everyone was cheering for me.”
These moments have helped Liana grow in confidence and resilience.
“Amy pushes me out of my comfort zone and has taught me to believe in myself even if it feels scary.”
Through their time together, Amy and Liana have built a bond that goes far beyond mentorship.
“Amy’s my role model. She inspires me to work hard and be a better person. I want to be as smart and caring as she is.”
For Amy, the feeling is mutual.
“Liana has brought so much joy into my life,” Amy says. “She’s taught me as much as I’ve taught her. I can’t imagine my life without her.”
Amy and Liana’s story highlights the power of mentorship. Through courage, connection, and love, they’ve shown that with heart and encouragement, anything is possible.
On Friday, March 7, 2025, The Big Night Out: Platinum Party will honor 70 years of Big Brothers Big Sisters of Central Arizona at The Westin Kierland Resort & Spa.