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Dear Younger Me

A Local Entrepreneur’s Letter to Her Younger Self

Article by Amanda Knowland

Photography by Kristol Kumar Photography

Originally published in Topeka City Lifestyle

Dear Younger April, 

As I sit down to write this letter to you, a flood of memories and experiences rushes through my mind, each shaping the person you will become. If only I could reach back through time and whisper words of wisdom and encouragement into your eager, uncertain ears.

There is so much I want to share with you. First and foremost, I want to tell you to embrace kindness with every fiber of your being. Live and love like Jesus.

Growing up in a household filled with love and faith, you already understand the importance of treating others with compassion and respect. Your capacity for kindness will be your greatest strength, forging meaningful connections and fostering a sense of community wherever you go. One day, you will pass on your heart for kindness to your own children.

Lean on your faith in times of joy and in moments of darkness. Know that you are never alone, and that there is a higher purpose guiding your steps. Your faith will sustain you, comfort you, and inspire you to reach out to others with love and understanding.

As you journey through the years, you will encounter challenges that test your resilience and perseverance. Remember that every obstacle is an opportunity for growth. Do not be afraid to stumble, fall, or make mistakes. It is through these trials that you will discover your inner strength and resilience. Embrace adversity as a teacher and emerge from each setback stronger and more resilient than before.

You will enjoy a long career as a teacher. These memories and relationships are invaluable. And when that path has run its course, you will transition to a career in client relations that will open new doors and present exciting opportunities for personal and professional growth. Surrounding yourself with a supportive husband, quality friends, and a rockstar team of women will help you figure it out. In fact, your small but mighty team helps run your office with integrity and first-class customer service.

And just as you lean on others who lift you up and inspire you, stay open to opportunities to help others in your community. You don’t know it yet, but you’re going to help young girls by providing feminine products to local schools. Topeka will rally behind you in this endeavor, supporting your Sister Goods organization with countless donations.

Above all, remember to cherish the relationships you build along the way. Your love for connecting with others, for building bridges and forging bonds, will enrich your life in ways you cannot yet imagine. Nurture those connections, seek out kindred spirits, and surround yourself with those who lift you up and inspire you to be your best self.

While I have your attention, remember these things: You are enough! Don’t burn bridges. Find the people that hold you accountable, yet love you unconditionally. Get out and move a little each day. Read your Bible every day. Get up and get your day started. And flex your organization muscle – don’t let mail pile up!

Younger April, as you embark on this journey called life, know that you are loved, valued, and destined for extraordinary things. Trust in yourself, believe in your dreams, and never lose sight of the kindness and faith that define you. The road ahead may be winding and uncertain, but know that I am here, cheering you on every step of the way. 

With love and admiration,

April

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