While enjoying my birthday—and coincidentally Thanksgiving—in the aromatic sauna at the Murrieta Hot Springs Resort & Spa, I met a couple looking for an unconventional holiday experience. During our conversation, they shared that they had postponed their honeymoon, as many couples have had to do. They asked for destination suggestions, and my immediate advice was to first discuss their goals as a couple and ask themselves a few key questions.
Are they planning to start a family? Are they feeling disconnected from each other, their jobs, or themselves? Do they want to explore destinations to discover new cultures and ways of living? I shared my perspective on destinations based on how they have influenced me during different phases of my personal journey.
As humans, we have the capacity to evolve and transform. Life’s situations can shape us into who we aspire to be—or we can choose to stay the same. Regardless of your path, destinations can serve as companions on your journey, meeting you where you are and guiding you toward who you’re becoming.
Forests
Forest bathing invites us to connect with the earth beneath our feet and the moss on trees. It creates a surprising sense of home and safety, making it a perfect environment for grounding yourself before planting your own roots—whether through buying a home, starting a family, or finding a community. Suggested forests: Jeffersonville & Stowe, Vermont; Forest Park, Portland, Oregon; and the Redwood Forest, Northern California.
Beaches
Watching ocean waves can be hypnotic, reflecting the ebbs and flows of life. The beach is ideal for meditation and clearing away the debris of the past. Whether alone or with others, the ocean offers space for renewal and fresh perspectives. Suggestions for extended stays: cruises, all-inclusive resorts, or campgrounds with beach access.
Cities and Cultures
Leaving familiar environments can feel liberating. Immersing yourself in a new city or country invites exploration without judgment. You can pick up accents, learn new languages, and rediscover aspects of yourself. Suggestions: theme parks, East Coast cities, Europe, and Asia.
Wherever you are on your journey, there’s a destination waiting to guide you to your next chapter. See you there!
Wherever you are on your journey, there’s a destination waiting to guide you to your next chapter. See you there!