For survivors beginning again after abuse or violence, something as simple as choosing an outfit can represent far more than getting dressed. At Carol’s Boutique inside the Dr. Carol B. Berz Family Justice Center, clothing becomes a way to restore dignity, confidence, and choice.
Named in honor of the late Dr. Carol B. Berz, the boutique serves individuals affected by domestic abuse, sexual assault, human trafficking, elder abuse, stalking and other forms of violence. Many arrive at the Family Justice Center after leaving dangerous circumstances with few belongings, regardless of their previous economic situation.
Carol’s Boutique offers clothing, shoes, handbags and personal-care items at no cost, but its purpose extends well beyond providing necessities.
“Choice is incredibly powerful, especially for someone whose choices have been controlled or taken away by an abusive partner,” says Deana Keys Lane, Coordinated Community Response Specialist.
Instead of being handed predetermined items, survivors are invited to browse the boutique and select pieces that feel right for them. Choosing a favorite color, finding an outfit that fits beautifully or picking out the perfect handbag can be a small but meaningful step toward reclaiming independence.
That is also why the quality of donations matters.
“High-quality, attractive clothing communicates that survivors deserve the very best, not just what is left over,” Deana says. “It reinforces the message that they are valued and worthy of good things.”
Professional attire and everyday clothing can help survivors prepare for job interviews, court appearances, housing appointments or a new job. Just as importantly, feeling comfortable and confident in what they wear can help make an unfamiliar or stressful situation feel a little more manageable.
The boutique welcomes new or gently used women’s clothing in all sizes, including professional and business-casual attire, shoes, purses, jewelry, pajamas and seasonal pieces. New undergarments and personal-care products such as shampoo, deodorant, feminine hygiene products and skincare items are also appreciated. Clothing should be clean, in excellent condition and ready to wear.
Deana recalls one survivor who came to the boutique while preparing for a job interview. After choosing her clothing, she looked in the mirror, smiled and quietly said, “I finally feel like myself again.”
For Deana, moments like that reveal the boutique’s true purpose.
“That moment had very little to do with the clothes themselves,” she says. “It was about dignity, hope, and believing that a new chapter was possible.”
For more information, call 423-643-7600 .