Everyone is trying to save a little money these days, and I think doing so can make you feel better about yourself and your partner. Here are some tips to help you save a little green, get a little closer and grow a little self-esteem in the process.
1. Eat in. Cooking as a couple is a bonding experience and fun. I believe that when two hearts and four hands are preparing a meal together, it becomes food for the soul as well as the body.
2. Share dinners. Splitting an appetizer, an entrée and a dessert is good for your body as well as your wallet. There’s also something bonding about sharing food.
3. Have DVD dates. These days going to the movies can cost as much as filling up your gas tank (if you include popcorn). Renting some DVDs and sharing some Orville Redenbachers is an inexpensive and fun evening, especially if you cuddle up.
4. Go on a weekday picnic. Don’t just brown bag it, but take the time to make a nice lunch with things you really enjoy, and eat outside under a friendly tree with the one you love.
5. Share a series. Find a television show that you both like and make a date to watch it together for the entire run. On nights when your show doesn’t air, make a pact to do something else together for that time.
6. Grow your own. Whether it’s vegetables, herbs or flowers, harvesting your own food or décor gives you a wonderful feeling. Even if you live in an apartment, you can grow tomatoes and herbs in a window box.
7. Buy/sell used books. Again, you’re helping the environment by recycling, and even if you just donate old books, you can get a tax deduction.
8. Walk and talk. Grab your partner and hit the streets. Exercise is one of the cheapest, easiest, and emotionally bonding activities you can engage in.
Finding ways to save a little without shortchanging your relationship or sense of self-worth is much easier than you might think. Start with these ideas and, if you come up with some of your own, send them to me.
Barton Goldsmith, PhD, is an award-winning psychotherapist and humanitarian in Westlake Village. He is also a columnist, the author of eight books and a blogger for PsychologyToday.com with over 35 million readers. He is available for in-person & video consults world-wide, reach him at Barton@BartonGoldsmith.com.
