When embracing a furry family member within one's home, it's vital to understand what's become known as the 3-3-3 Rule. This phased adjustment approach reflects time-tested guidelines that it can take a dog or cat 3 days to decompress from its prior circumstances, particularly if coming out of noisy, unfamiliar shelter surroundings; 3 weeks to adapt to a new environment; and 3 months to bond and build trust with new pet parents. In other words, patience, patience, patience is essential as new pets learn to heal and enjoy life again in a safe, loving environment.
Consider how to handle the following top reasons that pet adoptions don't feel like they're working out; often it's because pets don't immediately show appreciation, affection or interaction.
Behavioral Issues: Adopted animals may need to be redirected from food guarding, chewing, marking, separation anxiety or difficulty getting along with other pets.
Lifestyle Mismatch: Decide ahead of time if a high-energy dog will receive enough exercise, if a long-haired cat will get enough grooming, or if a dog with separation anxiety can settle into a busy household with young children or vacant house during work shifts.
Unexpected Veterinary Costs: Adopting a pet can come with unexpected veterinary bills due to pre-existing conditions later discovered or finally identified.
Training and Socialization: Seek assistance with a new pet's adequate training or socialization, before giving up too soon.
Change in Adopter's Circumstances: Life changes, such as job loss, relationships or moving, can make it difficult for adopters to continue caring for pets. Always first try to place pets with a trusted friend or relative.
Lack of Resources: Budget for veterinary care, food, grooming or perhaps training.
By asking questions before adopting and then establishing a comfortable routine for pets, you'll become friends for life.