In honor of Father’s Day, we pay tribute to the fathers and father figures whose words and deeds helped shape our values, character, and spirit. Here of some examples from individuals in the Greater Rochester community.
My father was a “gentle” man who unconditionally loved his family. I was his Princess and he was my King. He taught me to be resilient in times of adversity. He never complained even though he was an Italian soldier, prisoner of war and immigrant. He taught me to forgive but never forget. My father instilled in me to always respect others and oneself, to honor family and be empathetic towards others. He was my hero, my example of how to live life, a true gentleman.
Sara Castro, Rochester
Dad Joseph Rivoli
My father is not known for being a man of many words, but during a particularly difficult period of my life, I recall him telling me that "As bad as it seems right now, it will not last and you will be stronger for it." At the time, I remember thinking it sounded more like a fortune cookie than the advice I needed. Turns out, it was exactly what I needed to hear. His quiet confidence and support helped restore my sense of stability and I will always be deeply grateful for the strength he gave me.
Cory Roberts, Fairport
Dad Bill Roberts
My dad, who passed in October, was a man of few words, but his actions said it all.
Despite being abandoned by his own father as a small child, my father always showed up for and supported his family in every possible way. There was no limit to what he would sacrifice and do for us , regardless time of day, distance, cost or inconvenience.
He always cut coupons and shopped the sales when it came to his own needs but had no spending limits when it came to bringing happiness to and taking care of others. This was most obvious with his granddaughters, but when going through his checkbook after he passed, I realized that his generosity extended to most any charity or church appeal that asked for his support.
Cheryl Shank Yawman, Fairport
Dad Fred Shenk
Enduring quotes and advice from my dad:
· “Sometimes it’s easier to get forgiveness than permission.”
· “Ya know, your car will run out of gas eventually.” After I told him I coasted into a gas station on fumes as the engine sputtered.
· “Want to delight? Give the customer more than they expected.”
· “Money is a tool. Not a goal.”
· “Always sit in the front of the classroom.”
Brian Reh, Victor
Dad Dave Reh
My dad passed away in January 2024. There are a few lines he lived by:
If you love your job, you’ll never work a day in your life;
Listen and absorb—you don’t always need to speak
People will never forget the lengths you go for them.
Don’t worry about the things you can’t control
Family over everything. They will always be there for you.
Stefanie Fingler, Penfield
Dad Steven V. D’Orazio
His quiet confidence and support helped restore my sense of stability and I will always be deeply grateful for the strength he gave me.
Cory Roberts