Growing up in Stamford shaped the Lovello's in ways that still define them today. The city’s
diversity—and the spirit of its public schools—encouraged them to connect with people from all
backgrounds. That early exposure built empathy, understanding, and a lasting sense of
community.
Youth sports also played a huge role in their upbringing. They provided structure beyond the
household and taught them how to be coached—how to listen, learn, and grow. Sports in Stamford
weren’t just about competition; they were about accountability, character, and collaboration. They
learned that success isn’t measured only by talent, but by effort and teamwork. Those lessons
guide how they approach challenges, relationships, and even their work in the community.
Some of the fondest memories are woven into Stamford itself. "We feel incredibly fortunate to
have been raised here, to have stayed, and to have built our lives together in the same city that
raised us. Watching Stamford grow and evolve has been inspiring, and being part of that
progress has been deeply rewarding."
They call Stamford “the smallest big city”—close-knit and familiar, yet full of opportunity.
"It’s a place where you can bump into a friend at the beach or on Bedford Street, and feel connected to something bigger. We come from large families and we grew up making full use of everything the city had to offer—its beaches, parks, and golf courses."
Now, they joke that they pay their taxes with pride, because they see the value in giving back to a
community that gave them so much. "It feels good to know that the next generation is benefiting
from the same opportunities we had, and maybe even more."
Maria’s path to volunteerism began with her love of animals. Her first charitable work was with
the Connecticut Humane Society. Maria expanded her efforts, joining Food Rescue of Fairfield County and helping Stamford Animal Control. Most recently, she added Flower Again—a nonprofit that repurposes event flowers into new bouquets for seniors and hospitals. Each experience deepened her belief that small, personal acts of kindness can create ripples of joy and connection.
Together, they’ve served on several boards, including the Allison Rioux Foundation, the Connecticut Humane Society, the American Cancer Society, and the Downtown Special Services District. Frank says, "Years ago, we made a shared decision: we wanted to make a difference. And in our own little way, we’ve tried to do just that."
Maria adds, "What surprises us most is how much joy it brings us. Whether it’s helping a dog find a forever home, delivering food to local agencies, or bringing flowers to a senior who spends most of the day alone—each act fills us with gratitude. Giving back doesn’t feel like an obligation; it feels
like a privilege."
The life lessons were passed down through generations. "Our passion for helping others comes directly from our parents and grandparents. They lived by the belief that community begins with kindness and action. They showed us that lifting others up is far more powerful than tearing anyone down. Their lessons weren’t lost on us—they became the foundation of how we live our lives."
One phrase they often return to is: “In a world where you can be anything, be kind.” It’s simple,
but it guides everything they do.
What inspires the Lovello's? "We’re two Stamford natives who chose to stay where our roots run deep. Our goal is simple: to make our parents proud, to be good neighbors, and to leave things just a little better than we found them. If, along the way, we can inspire even one person to join the circle of volunteering—to see how small acts can spark big change—then we’ll know we’ve truly achieved something special."
They call Stamford “the smallest big city”—close-knit and familiar, yet full of opportunity.