Like many little girls, Ashley Jantz grew up dreaming of being a princess. Unlike most little girls, Jantz is living her dream.
Nearly ten years ago when someone invited a friend to portray an ice queen at an event, Jantz agreed to step in as her snow sister. She had no idea at the time that decision would turn into a dream come true. When the two friends saw how popular the sibling princesses were with kids and parents alike, Jantz decided to start Once Upon a Princess.
Today, Jantz works full-time filling her calendar with up to 50 parties a month and managing a cast of around 30 talented contracted performers who play more than 100 characters from princesses to superheroes—and even some villains.
“It’s such an incredible feeling to see kids’ full-blown belief that we are the real princess,” Jantz says. “The squeals and giggles—I could live off those forever.”
With ten years under her princess party peplum, Jantz has gathered tips and tricks for a party that is practically perfect in every way.
Do Your Research. Look for locally-owned character companies, read reviews and ask questions. Steer clear of national companies that might offer better pricing but often cancel at the last minute.
Allow Time to Prepare. Every minute you have planned is going to take two, so set aside plenty of time for preparation—more than you think you will need.
Remember the Necessities. Phone chargers and lighters for birthday candles are the two most commonly forgotten items, according to Jantz. In fact, she and her cast members often carry extras.
Think Through Timing. Power-down the bounce house when characters arrive to eliminate distractions. On the other hand, plan to serve cake at just the right time to create a diversion from the characters when they leave.
Let Kids Be Kids. Little boys like princesses, and little girls like superheroes. That’s okay. Allow kids to participate in whatever activities or take pictures with whichever characters they choose.
Give Yourself Grace. A party doesn’t have to be big to be special. It also doesn’t have to be Pinterest perfect to be a success. Expect the unexpected, and give yourself grace when the party doesn’t go exactly as planned.
Be Present. The greatest gift you can give your child isn’t a perfect party or even a present. It’s your presence. Parents tend to get so wrapped up in all the details, they forget to just be in the moment. Hand your camera to someone else so that you don’t miss out on being part of the magic you helped to create.
“The world needed a little magic. What better way than with princesses!”