VIP matchmaker Brigitte Weil, acknowledged for her personalized matchmaking services tailored to busy professionals, shares her expert advice to help singles find love through her "Top 10 Tips for Finding Forever Love in 2025" guide for those ready to approach dating with purpose and positivity.
1. Shift to Positive Mindset.
Approach dating as an exciting opportunity to learn about yourself, meet new people and clarify what truly matters.
2. Be Authentic.
Honesty is sexy! Pretending to be someone you’re not only leads to misunderstandings and missed opportunities.
3. Ask Interesting Questions.
Spark engaging conversations by asking unique questions like, “What’s your all-time favorite movie?” “What’s something most people don’t know about you?” Move beyond standard topics to build real connections.
4. Be Open-Minded.
Don’t dismiss a potential match if they don’t check all boxes. Focus on reasons to like them instead of dwelling on perceived shortcomings. Leave room for surprises.
5. First Impressions Matter.
Put effort into appearance. Make eye contact, arrive on time and skip athleisure for polished, confident looks.
6. Date NATO/Not Attached to Outcome.
Let dates unfold naturally without forcing agendas. Being present and open to possibilities can lead to unexpected rewards.
7. Separate Wants from Needs.
Identify what truly matters in a partner. Is physical appearance as important as kindness? Clarifying priorities focuses on meaningful qualities.
8. No Chemistry? No Problem!
Sparks don’t always fly instantly. If you like the person, exchange numbers and consider building friendship or becoming each other’s dating accountability partner.
9. Break Routine.
Switch up habits: try new coffee shops, attend different events or explore unfamiliar settings to expand social circles.
10. Practice Makes Perfect.
Dating is a skill that improves with intention and self-awareness. Each date brings one closer to understanding and finding a partner who aligns with your values.
“Dating in today’s world can be challenging, especially for professionals juggling demanding schedules,” says Brigitte. “But with the right mindset and approach, finding a meaningful connection is absolutely possible. My tips are designed to help singles shift their perspective, fine-tune their dating strategy, and ultimately find the love they deserve.”